Family: How the Human Need for Connection Forms and Shapes Our Lives

From the acclaimed author of Our Babies, Ourselves comes an illuminating and thought-provoking look at the nature of family across time and cultures.

Family is the most ubiquitous and persistent human social group. Everyone across the world has a family, even if that family has been lost, broken, or transformed. Acclaimed anthropologist Meredith Small, author of Our Babies, Ourselves, examines the very roots of the family and why this particular type of connection is the bedrock of human interaction in all cultures—and how this understanding can help us navigate our rapidly changing world.

Previous books about family are self-help books designed to start, build, or repair broken families. Family: How the Human Need for Belonging Shapes Our Lives is something different. Why do we form families? Why do people place such importance on their family relationships? And what is the reality of family life—does it live up to our expectations? What do families provide for each of us at all the stages of our lives?

Small takes the reader on a journey from the evolutionary roots and fossil evidence of family three million years ago to its present-day varied expression. Across the globe, various forms of marriage, parenting, and types of family differ from the Western template of a family of Mom+Dad+kids. People have always adapted the notion of family to their own worldview, religious beliefs, and economic necessities.

In a narrative that is both sweeping and intimate in scale, we see how family is not a fixed notion, but something has evolved with us as a species, from our days as hunter-gatherers to the establishment of agriculture, and later, cities. Family is as varied as the human experience itself. Illuminating and thought-provoking, Family shows how our innately human need for belonging can be drawn upon to navigate the uncertainties of today's world.